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mailbox monday : and a fall bride!

So… here we are, a mere three months after these photos were taken… that’s not so bad, right? Well, I just can’t believe I forgot to show you these. I’ll blame it on postpartum fog. This is my beautiful, spunky, and hilarious sister Natalie. She got married in November (her wedding date was four days after my due date! I know every pregnant woman secretly hopes she will have her baby a little early, but I was reeeeally hoping. Really really really. Thank goodness I got my wish.) Anyway, she is graduating from law school this May and is going to make a fantastic lawyer. We had so much fun shooting these photos even if it was soggy and wet outside–and I was 8 months pregnant. We shot at the DelMonaco Winery (where the reception was held) and even though it was less-than-optimal shooting conditions, we did it anyway!

It just goes to show… you can work with any lighting condition if you have to… just get creative!

Which brings me to this week’s installment of Mailbox Monday–where you ask and I answer. If you have a question–any question at all–just click on “ask me anything” up there in the menu and send it my way.

I’m thinking of attending a workshop–which would you recommend?

Honestly, I’m not very familiar with a lot of the workshops out there. I have heard wonderful things about Zack Arias’s One Light Workshop. I am a big fan of learning on your own as much as you can–especially with the wealth of information you can find on the internet. Workshops are a great way to learn specific skills, but I’d be wary of attending one as a shortcut to success… I think you might find yourself in the same spot afterward, only a few $K lighter. Check out the reviews of the workshop you want to attend and really research it. Ask yourself if it will really help you attain your goals, whether it be skill-related or business-related. I have heard many stories from photographers who felt that they really threw away money attending workshop after workshop. Don’t search around for someone else to hand you success. Get out there and track it down yourself.

love love love

I have been keeping up with and praying for a few fellow photographers from around the globe who have had heartbreakingly tragic events transpire in their lives… one of them with a tiny baby Jude’s age who contracted pertussis, one whose sweet sweet girl has been crippled by stomach issues that no one seems to know how to fix, and another whose darling baby boy went underwater in the bath in the few minutes mom stepped out to take care of her other babies. It just totally breaks my heart.

But at the same time, it’s a great reminder of what’s important in life. Not to sound cliche.

Legos all over the dining room table and floor… not important.

Jelly stains on the couch. Not important.

The things on my to-do list that seem like they’ve gotta be done right.this.second.can.i.please.have.a.minute.to.myself… no.

Baby coos.

An oral dissertation from a 4-year old on the merits of dinosaurs having toenails.

A squirrely grin from a 2-year old.

A family wrestling match (sans baby).

These are the things. These are the days. I don’t want to look back on this season of life and remember how much I complained, whined, wished away the hours. I want to treasure my babies every day, every minute, for who they are and what they can do in the here and now. It goes by so quickly as it is, and it can be taken away in a heartbeat.

So I remind myself of this… especially at those 2am wake-up calls by the fellow in the following photo… and I encourage myself, and all of you, to cover your families in love, love, love. You can never regret it.

the weather really is frightful.

I really don’t mind snow that much. I used to live in Indiana… in fact, that’s where I took drivers’ education and learned how to drive. So lots of my very first driving experiences took place in the snow. Ice, however, is another story. Not a big fan of ice.

Luckily, during this winter storm, we were able to huddle down and stay inside and enjoy all the beautiful frigidness from the delicious warmth of our nicely heated home. We did venture out to sled, of course, and I also wanted to document some of the really pretty effects of the freezing rain.

And because it is Monday, it’s time for another installment of Mailbox Monday.

Today’s question comes from a mom wanting to get more out of her DSLR :

How do I get the blurry backgrounds when I take pictures of my kids?

The main thing you need to get a blurred background is an aperture that goes as wide as possible… and a lot of your kit lenses won’t really give you a super wide aperture. Most of them will open up to about f/3.5 at their widest focal length, but if you zoom in you start to lose some of that. So my recommendation is to go to B&H and get yourself a nifty fifty–a 50mm f/1.8 lens that is ultra light, ultra cheap, and so much fun to learn on.

Shooting at wide apertures is tricky business, however. Your depth of field will decrease with wider apertures, but it will also decrease as your distance to your subject decreases. This may give you a razor-thin plane of focus, and you really have to pay attention and practice, practice, practice to nail your focus.

If all this language totally confused you, find out more about aperture and how your camera works here : The Pioneer Woman. Ree Drummond takes a fantastic look at aperture settings in this article, and it’s broken down really well.

That’s all for today, folks! I am diving back into my job for the day… the most wonderful time of the year… taxes! I should be surfacing soon!

mailbox mondays : inquiring minds want to know!

See that little link up there that says “ask me anything?”

I mean it–ask me anything.

I get a lot of questions via email from other photographers (and moms too!) so I thought I’d start doing some public Q&A. Submit your question or questions and I will pull a few every Monday to answer on the blog.

For today I will answer two commonly asked questions via email.

I have been working on my photography as a hobby and now people have started asking me to take their family pictures. How should I do this? What should I charge?

I am a strong believer that photographers who charge money–no matter how little–should be professionals. That doesn’t mean you have to have a degree or have a bunch of formal education under your belt, but it does mean you should be not only completely competent with your equipment, but have a solid business base in place as well. And that will mean having a business plan which includes your goals and a very detailed workup of your pricing system. Too many photographers arbitrarily pick numbers of “what sounds good” to charge and when you sit down and actually do the math, they end up making less than what they could make working at McDonalds.

And until you’re ready to make the plunge and go into business… really, truly ready… then keep shooting for free and for fun. You don’t have to say yes to everyone who asks you–you can always just shoot what you want.

Most importantly, if you do go into business, be yourself. Don’t try to imitate other photographers–bring what’s uniquely you into your business, and shoot what you love. Everyone has something different to offer in this industry and I think that is a wonderful thing.

I struggle with skin, especially newborns. How do you keep the skin creamy and not blotchy?

Exposure is everything with skin. If you underexpose skin, when you bring it up in photoshop to where it should be, a lot of times the ruddiness and blotchiness in skin gets even worse. So be sure your exposure is correct in camera. (And keep in mind exposing for skin can be tricky–you have to tailor your exposure to the skin tone.)

In photoshop you should only need to do some minor tweaking–maybe some selective color adjustments if you have red blotches, and occasionally a little bit of gaussian blur on some uneven parts. But correcting your in-camera work should really make a huge difference.

2010! how the heck are ya?!

Okay, so here goes my obligatory “welcome to the new year” post… only it’s not really obligatory because I want to do it. Mainly because I DO want to do some things differently this year on my blog (namely, uh… post) and well, while it’s convenient that this coincides with the beginning of a new year, what it really has more to do with is the fact that Jude is now almost 12 weeks old and my life is starting to slow down just ever. so. slightly.

So. No one really wants to read a post about how someone’s going to do more posts, but I do have to just say it so I will stick to it.  I also want to share more pictures from my life, from my kids to other things I enjoy photographing. And lastly, I want to start sharing tips and tricks for the moms-with-a-camera and aspiring photographers out there. As you may or may not know, I have taught three workshops so far and love sharing photography tidbits with those inquiring minds who want to know.

Now, onto some pictures of what I’ve been up to for the last 12 weeks. Okay so this is just one of the things. But he does take up quite a bit of time.

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Right now his hobbies are eating, sleeping, and…

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staring at his fist. He logs a good 4 hours a day contemplating that thing.

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…and now Jude has officially surpassed me in eyelash length. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I am the only female in my household, and all four males have longer, more beautiful (can I say beautiful about a boy? Matt’s gonna kill me) eyelashes than me.  Including Matt himself. It’s ridiculous.

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(oh, and can you guess what he is doing in the above picture?)

santa baby…

It’s not unusual to hear me ooh-ing and ahh-ing over a newborn as I am photographing him or her… I’m usually just overcome with the cuteness of the tiny little thing, even as I am shooting! But this little girl was subjected to even more than the standard amount, and that’s because she is my super-sweet, so tiny, and so beautiful and kissable niece. Meet the cutest santa baby I have ever seen, a Christmas eve baby that surprised her momma with an early Christmas gift–her presence in the world! This is Janna, at four days old:

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still looking back…

a mix of private and magazine work…

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looking back…

Since I’m still in the midst of my maternity leave, I thought I’d take advantage of some of the downtime to post some images from the past year that I LOVED, but didn’t get to share with you. I also dusted off the old camera the other day (hello, old friend! remember me?) and hopefully will be shooting more and more as I get back into the swing of things around the holidays and after the first of the year.

Speaking of the first of the year, I have a waiting list for private sessions in the Memphis/Germantown area in January or February. If you would like to be added to the list, please contact me!

These are a mix of private clients and magazine work. I’ll keep posting more over the next several weeks, so hang out here every once in awhile to see something new!

Just looooove me some sleeping babies–does she not have the perfect bow mouth?

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These two are from justine magazine–some perfectly gorgeous girls in an incredible setting. But when I look at these images, I think HOT! We were just dripping the sweat.

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Inside a beautiful historic home in Germantown:

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This little guy was so perfect, I loved every tiny part of him:

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willow meets the world

I had been looking forward to photographing sweet Willow for several months… and we knew she was due right around my own little addition, so we sort of had to take the wait-and-see approach. So here she is, at a little over two weeks… so beautiful and such a good baby! (And we share a birthday, so she’s gotta be something special.)

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the culmination of a busy fall

I’ve worked hard this summer and fall–traveling for magazine assignments, rocking… and photographing… and rocking… and photographing some more sweet babies for private clients, and shooting some pretty sweet commercial jobs. But nothing has compared to the tiny work that was going on inside me the whole time–we finally got to meet the little being that has been my companion on all my shoots, and kiss the little feet that have been keeping a beat for the last several months. Our sweet boy, our Judah, has finally arrived! Meet Jude, all 8 1/2 pounds of him, at four days old:

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Photographers : have you ever tried to photograph your own newborn session? I wouldn’t recommend it. I lasted about five minutes before I had to collapse back onto the couch and hope the fifteen shots I was able to get would be decent. I have newfound admiration and respect for all my newborn client mommas!

And a few shots I took a few days before Jude was born–the older brothers:

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